people pleasing

i suffer from people pleasing

i say yes when you say yes

i say no when you say no

who am i really then?

who is there to get to know?

i’m going to stand for something

i’ll disagree. i’ll make my point.

i don’t want to just be a mirror, a smile, a nod.




you are not a bundle of problems!
someone said that to me before.
i appreciate that.
sometimes it’s easy to walk around thinking you are
but i reminded another person a few months ago – you’re not messy. sure you got layers. but kind of like a flower has petals. you’re a rose. you got this!